| Location | Great Yarmouth |
| Age | 81 years |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 20/06/1928 |
| Date of Death | 28/08/2009 |
| Visitors | 123 since 07/09/2009 |
| Creator |
Jack Stolworthy passed away on the 28th of augest in the james paget hospital, ward 3.
My grandad was a fit and healthy man until about 3-4 years ago, he had a stroke and was in hospital
for a couple of months, i always thought after he got better from the stroke he would be his old
self again, helping my dad build stuff for the house and garden, playing rounders with us girls etc,
but he wasnt :/, he didnt have as much strengh as what he use to have, he had to then have a walking
stick to help him get around as he had a couple of falls. Things seemed to be ok for a while but
then my grandad had problems with his liver and the hospital said they didnt know why, he didnt
drink, he didnt smoke so they didnt know what caused the problems. He went in and out of hospital
with little problems but i always thought he would be fine, i couldnt of imagined my life without my
grandad as we were so close as he lived with us but time went on and grandad seemed to have gotten
worse. He got taken up the hosptial on the 10th of augest so they were just keeping an eye on him.
every night and some afternoons i was visiting him on the visiting hours, on the 13th of augest,
which was a monday me and my dad went up the hospital and i knew it was coming to an end for my
grandad, i went home to warn my sisters as we were all going up there the next day. on the 14th when
we got there my grandad looked like a different man, he had gotten worse over night, my step mum
called my dad to tell him to come straight to the hospital and then me my older sister and my middle
sister and my step mum decided we thought it was best for my little sister to come up to say her
final goodbyes, the nerses put us in a seperate room as there was alot of us wanting to be with him
and we could go up there when we liked for as long as we liked. It got to about 11.30 that night and
me and my little sister started to get tired but we didnt want to leave, in the end, me and my
younger sister went to my middle sisters house and slept there and got up really early to go to the
hospital. Grandad had fought through the night, the saturday night me and my oldest sister slept at
the hospital as my dad was tired from the night be4. Grandad kept going up and down for 2 weeks,
everyday we all spent hours up the hospital with him, everyone so soo shocked for how long he was
fighting for, his liver failed and then his kidneys followed and he was still serving, after a while
grandad couldnt fight anymore so let go to be with my nan.
My grandad really was an amazing person. Your one in a million, i love youu
Son of jack - Gavin
Daughter-in-law- Lousie
Grandaughters- Shana 21, Chantelle 19, Letitia (me) 16 and Mia 10
Great Grandson - Harvey-lee
I miss you gramps :/
I miss you soo much grandad :( a day doesnt go past without me thinking about you. Silly things happen and get said and they just makee me think of you, like i had an injection the other day, and i was nervous to get it done and i just thought to myself, all the injections i seen you havee, i surely could go through just that onee. It makes me think about you when i see people with there grandads, and when people talk about there grandads :( i just wishh you were still here with me :( i miss coming into yours once ive finished work and u asking me how many pennys ive earned, and the silly little names you use to call us all, and just the silly little things u use to do which put us all in stiches :/ grandad you were such an amazingg person. i lovee you sooo much, forever in my heart
I'll always think of you and smile...and be happy for time i had you with me :)
Love you soo much gramps x
i miss you :(
Grandad i miss you soo much :( im listening to ur song right now and it brings tears to my eyes! :'( i love youu soo muchh and cant describee how much i miss you!!! its so strange going to dads without you there anymore! i hate it, i just wishh u were still here with us :( This christmas im at mums in the morning but at night im going to be at dads, its going to be strangee going there without you there :(
My friend wrote me a poem for the day of your funeral, its makes me cry everytime i read it, i dont tell him that tho :P...
Been sittin her thinkin about what i should say
to try and make your pain, receed and go away
I know you wish your grandad, was always here to stay
but listen to my words closely, I mean every one i say
I know it seems cruel how you and him were torn apart
but just remember, he's always in your heart
He will be in there forever now, closer than any friend
Be there when your sad and happy, always with you till the end
Although he can't be with you now, or be heard or seen
He's lookin down at his teeshy weeshy, prouder than any man's ever been
Bless him :) i love you grandad, forever in my heart x
You never know how strong you are, until being strong is the only choice you have.
R.I.P Grandad, i love you and miss you :(
I love you
Grandad, i miss you sooo muchh :( i cant even discribe this feelings, everyone says the pain eases which i know it does eventully but at the moment it doesnt seem like its going too, people probly think im okayy with it now, as wen they see me i have a smile on my facee but im not smiling inside, sometimes i just sit in my room and cry to myself, everything that went on at the hospital just goes through my head, i just wish to myself i could see you again. Still i cannot believe that i will never see you again, it doesnt seem possible. Im going to find this christmas so hard without you grandad, aspecially as you told me you hope to make it till christmas :'( so i know you want to still be here with us :'( Me and chantelle were having a chat today and everything just went through my head and i broke into tears, im normally finee talking about it too people, but for some reason today i found it difficult :( i wont ever forget you grandad, i will love you forever, your the best grandad in the world xx
Forever in my heart
I love you :( i miss you soo much grandad :(
im getting a ring and im going to have grandad ingraved into it, and ill keep it forever :) i love you, always in my heart xx
Thinking of you always gramps, i miss you so much and wish you were still here with us :(
love you lots and lots like jelly tots x
:/
Its been a month since you left grandad :( its gone so quick, i miss you soo much and cant describe the way im feeling. Sometimes i just think to myself, it cant be right, i just want to be able to see you again, and give u a hug, i miss little silly things about you, like the way you use to pull a face and show your teeth, and just the random names u'd call us. I really do miss you and just want you hear with me :'( sometimes i say ill never see you again but i will one day.
The other day, me and my friend was talking to my friends mum, and she just sed to me, theres a spirit with you, she believed it as she seen a light thing above my shoulder, and i thought to myself, its my grandad, and i hope it was you grandad becuase i want to know that your with me :)
Well im now off here, need to make my breakfast, i love you sooo much grandad and you know that :)
Forever in my heart x
:(
I miss you soo much, thinking of you always grandad! i will never forget you
Forever in my heart
Your grandad daughter teeshy weeshy
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